#grieving

meditations on the wrong way to grieve

badmeritcollective

meditations on the wrong way to grieve There’s a lovely term in Thai that, translated directly, means “warm-heart”—as in a feeling of warmth in your heart—and essentially refers to the feeling of warmth, comfort and security. Like when you’re around people you love, when you feel safe and seen—the way the warmth of it settles around your heart. I have been trying for years to figure out how and where my grief has taken root,...

#sme

Your little shop, sorted.

winkl

Your little shop, sorted. Winkl was created because small businesses deserve better software. Not bigger software. Not more software. Better software. Software that understands how a real South African business actually works on an ordinary day, from the first order in the morning to the last delivery, collection, invoice, sample, stock adjustment or payment at the end of the day. We are not a random VC-backed Silicon Valley...

#sci-fi

Touch of Creation

tjschanaman

Touch of creation. Part 1: Guests He ignored it. This time he ignored it. The blinking red light, the signaling of distress, could not be answered. Peter Dove had tried eleven times previously to answer the signal. Always formally and as required by space-faring law, “Civilian merchant vessel 4113, pilot Peter Dove, receiving your distress signal, how may I assist?” Only to receive silence in return. An absolute silence, void...

#sci-fi

The White Space. Chapter 7. Lucarne

slwriter

The White Space. Chapter 7. Lucarne But how? Maybe that worker noticed something in office 109? Yet the main character was almost certain the man didn’t look at him at that moment. His steps didn’t falter, and neither did the other man’s. He listened to every movement — the gait remained steady. If the man had turned around, it would have changed immediately. Maybe they noticed the missing cartridge? But after it was written...

#despensa

La despensa rotativa

miquel-tort

La despensa rotativa Durante décadas, las sociedades industrializadas han delegado su seguridad alimentaria en supermercados, cadenas logísticas globales y sistemas de distribución que se daban por descontados. Esta delegación, producto de una era de abundancia energética y estabilidad geopolítica relativa, ha construido un modelo de aprovisionamiento basado en la inmediatez y la aparente garantía de suministro permanente....

#worldcup

I have been watching the world cup this weekend

meardaba

I have been watching the world cup this weekend, pulled in by the Trevor Noah watch party, and hooked. The pre-game chats are so lovely, so fun. We talk about the current game playing and encourage each other. We enjoy jokes at Joe's expense. Trevor actually interacts with, which is so exciting. (Though during the actual games there are so many spammer and trolls, it's hard to see the funny comments - and there is some COMEDY...

#physics

### The Beacon and the Blast

prasangika-matters

The Beacon and the Blast [I watched NPR Space Time and the latest episode sent me down the rabbit hole. The research took more time than I expected. P Why SETI, on its own requirements, is searching for a sender it could not locate, could not read, and at the energetic extreme could not survive ----- Let me concede everything at the outset, because the argument that follows is not an attack on the hope. The wish not to be...

#dreams

On Dreams and Dreaming

michael-graeme

I've kept a dream journal for over twenty years now and am constantly fascinated by the things they show me. Of course, the culture is divided over the idea of whether dreams actually mean anything. If you're of a strictly rational frame of mind, you'll probably dismiss them as little more than day residue, while those with an interest in depth psychology, will want to explore them further. I fall into this latter camp,...

#home

Home

nevjev

Home About an hour ago, D. and I moved out of Pittodrie, a flat I have been renting for the last three years. As we carried out the last bits of bags, boxes, and various bits and bobs, I sobbed inconsolably. Since we decided to move, I knew that, despite feeling excited about the charming process of nesting in a new home, I needed to say goodbye first. From the outside, Pittodrie is not a remarkable place. One of the old...

#nonduality

nondual insights that are not mainstream but not unfamiliar either

soplepel

concept application and schema redress as being ontologically nimble about self-allocation and the allostatic load that creates, in being a trade off, which has better settlement options, for more efficient allostasis. concept formation affords closure, such as to navigate situations from being informed, as well catching onto patterns, crystalizing concepts, and benefiting from new schemas and schema compression unto better...

#philosophy

An Introduction

animisma

An Introduction I've never been particularly good at distilling myself into a line or a paragraph. Like many artists and creatives, mine has been a life guided by curiosity, opportunity, and deep, profound connection with the non-human natural world. By day, I work in private philanthropy, guiding resources towards the world's most underserved peoples, initiatives designed to address civil society's problems, and investments...

#family

Net Zero

nihilsyurievich

A parent can disown a child for being gay. A parent can disown a child for being trans, autistic, difficult, disappointing, religious in the wrong direction, politically inconvenient, married to the wrong person, too strange in public, too honest in private, insufficiently obedient, insufficiently flattering, insufficiently useful to the family story. A parent can reject a child for failing some fantasy they mistook for...

#recovery

The Dictator

sbr

The Dictator My family is away for a few weeks, visiting friends abroad, which leaves me free to indulge myself by watching documentaries about collapse. It helps ground me, to be reminded that there is a bigger world outside, and that we should all be doing more to help sustain the world we want to live in. The one we want our children to live in. Amongst the usual litany of climate and economic collapse, there is a new...

#philosophy

Of life and death;

schnark

Of life and death; Of the current 8,298,638,535 people on this planet, I’m going to premise that half are living, and half are dying. Of course I’m not dealing in perfect faith with this, I haven’t met all these people, and I don’t know them that well. I start from my tiny experience of myself, of people I’ve known well, that I’ve loved, that I know have lived, and died. Some have died, but still live, so you can see that I...

#philosophy

When Structure Kills

dignitybydesign

When Structure Kills Invisible Power: Part Three A note on Leanne: She is a composite character, assembled from stories, research, interviews, and the kind of experience that belongs to millions of specific people rather than one of them. If you recognize her, that's the point. The call came on a Wednesday. Leanne was at her desk in Cincinnati, working through a spreadsheet that had stopped making sense an hour earlier, when...

#philosophy

# plums turn yellow

prasangika-matters

plums turn yellow *梅子黄 — ume no mi kibamu* Pause to consider. The weight of the fruit creates the tug. Branch, bending in support, never considers the past. Following a rhythm that is their own, fruit do not know slow. Alone they fall away. June moves quickly. Plum orchards rush to shed fruit that never knows the winter. Citrus groves pace gracefully, thinning themselves of too much fruiting, to welcome winter cold. None of...

On Process: It's Ok to Set It Down

inkblotsandintuition

Ok. I am going to talk about something uncomfortable. Something we as writers all do, and no one wants to talk about it. Are you ready? Guilt. Let me explain. You've been working on a novel, a novella, a sketch, something you love, and all the sudden Sometimes you get an idea for a character. A voice. A scene. A whole world. This just happened to me. I was in the middle of working on something for Parallax, my dystopian...

#philosophy

The Watchtower Nobody Occupies

dignitybydesign

The Watchtower Nobody Occupies Invisible Power: Part Two A note on Leanne: She is a composite character, assembled from stories, research, interviews, and the kind of experience that belongs to millions of specific people rather than one of them. If you recognize her, that's the point. By the time Leanne drove to work Monday morning, the story had arrived four times. Her father had sent the Fox article Saturday night, the one...

#philosophy

# Two Circles and a Square: What a Simple Drawing Reveals About the Contemplative Path

prasangika-matters

Two Circles and a Square: What a Simple Drawing Reveals About the Contemplative Path *Any Note Press* Take a piece of paper and draw a square. Inside it, draw the largest circle that fits — it will touch the square at exactly four points, the midpoint of each side. Now draw a second circle around the outside of the square, the smallest one that contains it — it will also touch the square at exactly four points, but different...

#philosophy

The Inherited Program

obsvr

The Inherited Program What Object-Oriented Programming Reveals About God, Consciousness, and the Human Condition by Wil Voll | Hair I Feel Today A note on process: This post grew out of a conversation with Claude AI. The ideas, analogies, and theological framework are mine — developed through challenge and pushback. Claude organized and articulated what I was reaching for. The thinking is human. The grammar got some help. — —...

#decrecimiento

¿Y si cada año cobrarás 100 euros menos al mes?

miquel-tort

¿Y si cada año cobrarás 100 euros menos al mes? Un ejercicio mental para prepararnos para una vida con menos y aprender a vivir mejor Imagina que mañana tu jefe, tu banco o el propio sistema te comunica con naturalidad que, a partir del año que viene, tu nómina o tus ingresos netos se reducirán en 100 euros al mes. No es un castigo, no es un error administrativo y tampoco es una crisis puntual que se resolverá en seis meses....

#cultural studies

KEYWORDS : Cyfieithu

widewing

KEYWORDS : Cyfieithu This essay first appeared in the journal PLANET (The Welsh Internationalist) as part of their series entitled Keywords inspired by Raymond Williams' work of that name but dealing with significant words for cultural identity in the Welsh Language. In the Introduction to his work Keywords, Raymond Williams defines two senses in which such words are significant. In Wales both 'translate' and 'cyfieithu' are...

#sci-fi

The White Space. Chapter 6 — Disturbing Message

slwriter

The White Space. Chapter 6 — Disturbing Message Fresh air hit his face. The light of the blue sky slightly blinded his eyes. For a moment, he felt peace and freedom. How much the architecture of the ministry pressed on a person. Only after leaving it does one begin to truly understand that. On the stairs he paused just for a moment to catch his breath. His heart was still beating fast but slowly returning to its normal...

#philosophy

The Time of Day Has Lots to Say

milraiz

The Time of Day Has Lots to Say May the gleam of the sun’s light be forever within me; throughout the dark nights, during days packed with rain, and in the mornings when clouds obscure the blushing sky. The sun is my mentor. Within me, the sun awakens a vividness which otherwise hibernates in deep crevices of my mind. Almost as if appreciation to detail is the core of a vast iceberg that rests dormant until a ray of sunlight...

#essay

Many Likes ≠ Quality

badmeritcollective

Many Likes ≠ Quality Thoughts on independent thinking, intelligence and living with uncertainty by Merle Elisa Manthey I recently read the essay How to Understand Things by Nabeel S. Qureshi. It has (as of now) 20,515 likes, 140 comments and 3,925 restacks. And to be honest: I don't quite understand why. There are three major points (leaving out some minor aspects) that kept me from liking it: 1. The author draws illogical...

#philosophy

# Even the Ground Could Not Witness Him

prasangika-matters

Even the Ground Could Not Witness Him Preamble: The mantis is hemimetabolous. The nymph emerges already a miniature of the adult — no larval disguise, no intermediate unrecognizable form, no veil to be forgotten. It is the continuity so complete there isn’t even an apparent break to misread. The butterfly phasing, the mantis never phased — it came out already itself. The mantis suffers fixation: single-pointed attention...

#non-correlationism

Intelligence effectuates Capitalism and Capitalism is not but-Intelligent

soplepel

Intelligence effectuates Capitalism and Capitalism is not but-Intelligent nd'ow a != A in a general semantic sense too, without not also being A, in a non-general semantic sense, too being is its own effects, and use is a term from a point, and the thing-happening-throughout is not only describable from a point pointedly, the overdetermination in the first instance can pull through things when the gap is minded, and it can be...

CONTÍCULO DE UM MILAGRE

mennaempalavras

CONTÍCULO DE UM MILAGRE Antes da fama, ele tinha fé. Por algum motivo que ele não soube explicar, lembrara-se disso olhando o desenho de uma lágrima em chamas tatuada na mão, enquanto o avião que levava a banda de rock do momento, da qual ele era o vocalista,...

On Process: Don't Be Afraid of Your Drafts

inkblotsandintuition

One of the quietest ways writers sabotage themselves is not through lack of skill. It is through comparison at the wrong stage. They read a published novel. Then they look at their own first draft. And they think: I am not good enough. But that comparison is fundamentally unfair. A published book is not a draft that "worked on the first try." It is the survivor of the writing process. Multiple drafts. Structural edits. Line...

#decrecimiento

Cuando el dinero ya no sirva.

miquel-tort

El racionamiento como única salida justa a la escasez Cuando pensamos en el colapso del sistema financiero, la imaginación colectiva suele girar alrededor del pánico: caída de bancos, ahorros congelados, mercados vacíos, colas en los supermercados. Pero la pregunta esencial no es cómo llegaremos allí, sino qué haremos después. ¿Qué ocurre cuando el dinero —esa ficción compartida que sostiene nuestra vida cotidiana— deja de...

#philosophy

“Rotten grass becomes fireflies”

prasangika-matters

“Rotten grass becomes fireflies” 腐草為螢 — Kusaretaru kusa hotaru to naru I have to sit. The breath is too short. It is that balance of inner competition: as the pump strain subsides, the pump failure moves forward. This keeps the walks short and the lifting light. I had watched my father only as spectator. Though now long gone, he possesses me. I am an occupied host. My memories of him remind: his body’s decay, at seventy, and...

#dystopian

Clone Sharks

keithvile

Clone Sharks “Quantum physics is eerie,” mused Dr. Gooden. He watched his fingertips subconsciously drum a nervous rhythm on the table’s cheap varnish. “There comes a point where the more you learn, the more you wish you could unlearn.” His questioners stared at him blankly. His fingers stopped and he snapped back to the matter at hand. Time could not be wasted. After all, his fate rested in the hands of these people. As...